Opportunities to Help (if you live in AZ)

I know some of you got this email, but I wanted to post it on the blog. So many of you have asked how you can help over the past few months and Karen's email (below) explains some opportunities. THANKS everyone!

Hey everyone:

A quick update -   Tony will be going into the hospital on February 7th.  We are estimating that he will be in until the 1^st weekend of March.  His transplant is scheduled for February 15^th and the docs look for his white cell count to rebound about 12 – 16 days after transplant.  They’ll wait a few days after the white cells come back and then should release him.  Again, once out, Tony will need to go back daily for the first few weeks, then every other day, then every couple of days for the next 2-3 months.

So, needless to say, we are going to need a bit of help from those of you in AZ. Visits to the hospital:  Because he will be in for over 3 weeks, Tony will be antsy and visits from people other than me will help entertain him and keep him energized. Also, it will help alleviate some pressure on me to be there every day.  Visits to our house:  Any time, night or day will work for us!  Again, Tony will want a diverse group of visitors so he is not just talking to me all the time.   

Tony and I could also use a little stress relief in the form of meals.  It helps so much not to have to plan a meal, buy all the ingredients, and then cook it.  (This is really something you will be doing for me, as Tony will not be cooking for a while.) Several of our friends have already been doing this in the form of home cooked meals, Costco meals, homemade muffins and home-brewed beer & cider!  WHEW- is it helping!!!!!  Tony and I are not looking for our cupboards to be stocked and our fridge to be filled, just a little help.    You can sign up on a calendar I have created. The link and more info is below.

Notes about visiting: No visitors under 12.  //  We would love it if Tony would get 2 visits from friends a week.  //  If you have an inkling of any illness, PLEASE, cancel your visit!  //  Mayo Hospital, 5777 East Mayo Boulevard, Phoenix, AZ 85054, 480-515-6296

I have created a calendar to help coordinate all of this.  Here is the link and login info: 

HELPER LOGON:  The HELPER logon is used by family and friends that would like to sign-up to help a loved one.  To access Tony Childers's personal CareCalendar site, visit http://www.carecalendar.org/logon/101445

and enter the following information in the appropriate spaces:

                                CALENDAR ID      :   101445

                                SECURITY CODE :   7159

Please contact me at aspentreehouse@gmail.com if you have questions about the calendar or need any help.  When you know what day would work for a visit, let me know and I will change the calendar.  This is all new to me, so I hope everyone is patient and understanding as I get this going!  :)

For all of our loved ones outside of AZ-  Just keep sending us your healing thoughts and prayers.  Tony really appreciates all the cards and emails, so keep them coming.

This is it, guys.  It begins next Tuesday!  Wish us luck, send us your love and help as your geography and time allow!!!  Love you all – Thank you so much for everything seen and unseen!

Testing Days

It has been a wild two days. I can’t tell you how many doctors and tests I have had done, but things are looking good. I have learned these test are more of a “base line” then a pass/fail kind of thing. They will use this info to determine how things are going as we go through the transplant. This is not to say the doc’s are not looking closely for any “signs” to say this is not the right time to start. The most interesting news is that we finally a true hospital admin date, Feb 7^th. I really will not have treatment on that first day. I will be getting my new 3 loom catheter put into my chest (to help with all he meds and blood draws) . This guy is really going to be my friend as I can expect to keep him for about 4 months.  Right now I am recovering from another bone marrow extract and collecting all my urine for 24 hours (not sure what they are testing with all that), so it is going to be a slow weekend. I will return to Mayo on Wednesday for more tests. It seems like we have been at this for some time now, but I can finally say that I see the STARTING line, and we are revved up to go. Let’s just hope the finish line goes quick. 

The Next Step…

Today’s appointment with Doc H. showed that the 2 rounds of ICE Chemo treatment did the job and it is time to move into the transplant process.   Now things start to move fast.  I will be spending all day Thursday meeting with doctors over at Mayo to get their OK to proceeded.  I need to get the approval from each department/doctor to confirm that I am ready and capable to have the transplant.  Here is a short list of some of the departments I have to get clearance from, to give you an idea of who is OK-ing things (Radiology , Vascular Surgery, Bone Marrow, Cardiology, Pulmonary Testing,  Cardiology Echocardiogram, Hematology Oncology, AIC Unit, Otorhinolaryngology, Infectious Disease).  Then, on Friday, I meet a battery of counselors and social workers, to make sure we are prepared for the next few months.  Finally, we with meet with Doc S to finalize the plan for the next 100+ days.  Right now, we have a tentative date of Feb 8^th for admission to Mayo hospital for the transplant.  Once admitted, we will begin a new chemo attack to “wipe out” my immune system in preparation for the transplant.  The exact date of the transplant has not yet been set but it will follow this chemo treatment. Once the transplant happens, I should expect another 5 to 6 weeks in the hospital to keep things under control- dealing with germs & stuff and giving my body time to grow a new immune system (and a new blood type).  So, it’s time for the next step.  It is all a bit exciting (and scary) to know this is all gonna really happen AND SOON! 

Energy Levels

Still, at home and all is going well. I was able to go in to work today for a few hours and that felt good. My energy level is still depleting. The best way to describe how this “energy” thing is working for me is to use the analogy of a battery. I start out the day feeling pretty good and everything is in working order, but as I do more and the day moves on, I use up the power. If I take things slow and conserve my power I can get a longer lasting day. Like before, nothing particular is wrong I just feel “wrong”. So my biggest daily decision is to decide how and when I use the energy I have. This is tough for me, the past many years I have been working so hard to train my body to handle harder and longer adventures. It takes a lot more effort than you would expect to change the mentality of just “push through the pain”. I am sure I will learn to adjust better and I try to remember this is just temporary. For now, I just need to watch my power levels more often and remember to plug in every now and again (naps) to keep my battery changed.

Lastly, I get a PET Scan Friday and see Dr. H. Monday for the results. Will update the blog once we have news.

Round 2 ICE treatment day 4 home at last

Nothing to report tired, very tired, but home and happy to be there. Next step doctors appointment Monday maybe more news then.

Round 2 ICE treatment day 3

Not too much to report today. The treatment is going OK. I am back to the “just wrong” feeling again, but like I have said before if that's all I have to deal with I will consider myself lucky. The only real change is that I am once again getting the Lovenox shots, twice a day. These shots are to help stabilize my blood thickness. Now that I am back in the throws of chemo, the medication (cumidin) is hard to manage and so is my INR (blood thickness). Since it is at 1.4, a bit too think, it should be between 2 and 3. The lovenox will help keep things in check until the INR is back to an OK level. Oh, the other thing about the shots is that it is every 12 hours 1PM and 1AM, so it turns out to be one more thing to keep me awake at night. These days of only 4 or 5 hours of sleep are turning out to be the hardest part of the hospital stays. Speaking of hospital stays, it looks like I will be able to get out of here some time after noon tomorrow, yea for me.

Round 2 ICE treatment days 1 and 2

Sorry for the delay in getting an update out for day 1 of this treatment round. As it turned out, things got going very late in the day yesterday, in fact, I was not in a hospital room until after 4 pm. Then today was full of computer issues that have shown its really time for a new laptop PC.

Anyway, here is the news, first off after several phone calls and quite a bit of waiting, we have learned that this round of ICE is approved and will be covered, hence that's why I am here (in the hospital). The big issue has to do with our first round of the ICE treatment. As it turns out that first hospital visit and treatment never did get authorized. It is still a mystery as to how the hospital did not notice that there was no auth: but that has to do with the first round which was in 2011 and observably we are now in 2012. We learned that my insurance has changed their contracting/approval company. So the first company (2011) says this procedure is experimental and is not covered in my plan. While the second company (2012) needed a bit more documentation from the doctor, but was OK and understands the medical necessity for the procedure. In fact, there records do no even show ICE as an experimental treatment. In the end, we still need to work with getting payment for the first round but at least we will have something to stand on. It just doesn't make sense- if one pays, why wouldn't the other?

I know this has been 2 post with a lot of ranting about insurance, but its what has been going on. The chemo stuff has actually been easier than dealing with insurances and doctor offices. Now as far as this ICE treatment goes... We once again got off to a late start. With not getting a hospital bed till after 4, I knew things would be getting started late, but I would not have expected the first drop of chemo to not start until midnight. Its not like you have places to be or really things to do, but this is not a treatment that they just put on autopilot. Remember its midnight and all you want to do is get some sleep. The treatment requires a lot of nurse intervention. Things start with a 15 min IV bag of premeds, followed by 1 hour of chemo. This dose of chemo must be watched very closely as it can lower your blood pressure to dangerous levels. So every 15 minutes they stop in to check you blood pressure. Once the chemo is done they hook you up with a IV fluids that must run continuously for the remainder of your stay. The great news is that these additional fluids are just enough to fill you bladder every 2 hours, thus you are up for a quick trip to the bathroom just as you begin REM sleep. Oh they also stop by to draw blood at 4AM every night so that the results will be available for any early doctor rounds. All in all, I got about 4 hours of sleep and never more than an hour at a time. Aren't hospitals fun? To end this, I will say that I am doing OK and am happy to say that my body is handling things well, all good news.